Would you rather: a fast icebreaker for new groups

Pick a deck and play

Read both options aloud. Everyone chooses at the same time, then tap the votes in.

Explain your pick

Optional: 30 seconds for one person to say why they chose it. Pass is always allowed.

Copy the result

One line for the group chat with how your round went.

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How to play in 5 steps

1. Pick a deck. Light is the easy start, and Deeper is for when the room has warmed up.
2. Someone reads the dilemma aloud. Both options, every time.
3. Everyone chooses silently, then shows it at once: raise a hand for A or B, or stand on one side of the room.
4. Tap the votes into the counter, or skip counting. Reveal the result.
5. Ask one person from each side to explain in 30 seconds. Then the next dilemma.

Tips for hosts

1. Keep it light. The answers are never right or wrong, and nobody has to justify a choice.
2. Let people pass on any dilemma. A pass is a valid answer.
3. Ask the smaller side first. It makes quieter guests feel heard.
4. Start with Light, then Travel and Food. Move to Deeper once people are chatting.
5. Keep a drink-free option on the table. This game works fine with tea and snacks.

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